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Should I Choose a Divorce Lawyer to Be My Mediator?

Divorcing couples choose mediation for a number of reasons: to save money, avoid the risks inherent in a trial, and free themselves from the constraints of the court calendar. Many also choose mediation because it’s a more cooperative process than litigation or traditional negotiation. Finally, some folks choose mediation because they don’t like dealing with… Read More »

Is Mediation Enforceable if One Spouse Backs Out?

Imagine this scenario. You and your spouse agree to mediation as a way to save time and expense with your divorce. Over the course of a few weeks, you attend your sessions and work with the mediator to reach consensus on alimony, child custody, child support, and the division of your property. The mediator drafts… Read More »

Can I Mediate During My Divorce to Speed Things Up?

This is a situation that comes up often. You and your spouse seemed miles apart on your divorce issues, so you figured the only way to dissolve your marriage was by litigating the case in court. Now you’re held hostage to a crowded court calendar, and you’re wondering if there’s anything you can do to… Read More »

Five Qualities to Look For in a Divorce Mediator

In a recent article entitled 5 Tips for Choosing the Best Divorce Mediator, Arizona divorce mediator Michael Aurit lists five qualities spouses contemplating mediation should look for. While much of what he writes is helpful advice, his emphasis is sometimes misplaced, and we must take exception to some of his assertions. If you’re contemplating a… Read More »

Five Ways to Prepare for Your Divorce Mediation

If you have decided to dissolve your marriage, a mediated divorce settlement can save you time, money and heartache. But mediation can only succeed if the parties are invested in the process and want it to succeed. In mediation, as with so many other endeavors in life, preparation is the key. Here are five steps… Read More »

Five Tips for Child Custody Mediation

Child custody mediation usually occurs during a divorce, but unmarried parents can choose to resolve their custody issues through mediation, and divorced parents can go back to mediation when substantial changes to their circumstances require them to review and revamp their parenting plan. Whatever the circumstances of your child custody mediation, you can benefit from… Read More »

What to Expect from Your First Divorce Mediation Session

Many sources will tell you to prepare heavily for your first mediation session and to come armed with various financial documents so you can provide detailed support for your position on numerous issues. That does not reflect reality, and it’s also not constructive. Here’s what we at Solutions Divorce Mediation, Inc. want you to bring… Read More »

Three Things that Mediation Is Not…Plus a Couple More

In a recent article on Mediate.com, Justin Kelsey, a mediator certified by the Massachusetts Council on Family Mediation, tries to dispel some misconceptions about mediation by explaining what mediation does not do. Mr. Kelsey does a good job describing why: Mediation is not arbitration — When two individuals are locked in a conflict, there’s a… Read More »

Five Factors to Weigh When Deciding to Try Divorce Mediation

Divorce can be costly, time-consuming and stressful. Fortunately, there are alternatives to adversarial litigation that can reduce your expenses and speed up the process. At Solutions Divorce Mediation, Inc., our professional family law mediators provide focused mediation services that deliver consistently excellent results. However, even the best mediators are going to have a tough time… Read More »

Can New Yorkers Really Serve Divorce Papers Through Facebook?

Can you adjust your status to “single” by serving divorce papers to your spouse’s Facebook account? Traditionalists might think it’s absurd to use social media to deliver court documents, but technology is rapidly changing the world, and standards for service of process are changing as well. Under perfect circumstances, personal service — actually handing a… Read More »