Don’t Listen to These Divorce Mediation Myths

As you get started with the divorce mediation process, it is a good idea to regularly communicate with your mediator or attorney and have them answer any questions you have. If you do not, there is a possibility you will be exposed to some divorce mediation myths that could unnecessarily frighten you.

Here are a few examples of some common mediation myths you should simply ignore.

• Mediators will make decisions on your behalf: If you and your spouse cannot agree, a mediator will not make a decision for you. That would be the role of an arbitrator, not a mediator. The mediator’s job is to simply facilitate discussion and communication. They will never advocate for a specific solution.
• Mediation is unlikely to work for couples who disagree on issues: The entire point of going to mediation is to work through issues on which the couple does not agree. Now, if communication and the relationship have broken down to the point where either party refuses to speak to or cooperate with the other, then that’s a problem. But disagreement on issues can be worked through in the mediation setting.
• There’s no need for an attorney: It may be possible for you to get through your mediation without an attorney. However, working with an attorney can be extremely beneficial because they can prep you for your mediation sessions, help you prioritize your issues and review any settlement offers that you reach in the mediation sessions. It’s nice to have an experienced professional who will advocate for you.

These are just three of the most common myths that tend to surround divorce mediation. To learn more about the mediation process, contact an experienced Long Island divorce lawyer at Solutions Divorce Mediation.